When Jesus says, “You must be born again” he is referring to regeneration, not a specific kind of conversion experience. Thus says the Lord GOD: “I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.” This is regeneration, the beginning of a new man, one who is able to be sanctified by faith with every good work. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. Everything old has passed away; behold, everything has become new.”
“Born-again” Christians take this command of Jesus to be born again, but confuse regeneration with the story of the prodigal son. In that sense, being “born-again” is for the one who wanders farthest away. But should we be proud of that? We are burdened with secrets we should not know. We look with amazement at the patient endurance of those who guarded their faith from childhood. We fear more than anything the parable of the seed with no root, that sprouts magnificently and then withers, because by God’s grace we are sprouting magnificently. But, God gives us faith that we will persevere. And what does God say to the older son? “‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours.” So we rejoice that God has taken us back, that He has been waiting and watching for us, but we must not be elitist. Rather, we say “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.” and then rejoice that God calls us, “Son.”
“For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire workers for his vineyard.He agreed to pay them a denarius for the day and sent them into his vineyard. About nine in the morning he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing.He told them, ‘You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.’ So they went. He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, ‘Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?’ ‘Because no one has hired us,’ they answered. He said to them, ‘You also go and work in my vineyard.’ When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, ‘Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.’ The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius.So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius.When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner.‘These who were hired last worked only one hour,’ they said, ‘and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.’ But he answered one of them, ‘I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn’t you agree to work for a denarius?Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you.Don’t I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?’ So the last will be first, and the first will be last.”